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Swifty, you don't have to recant about what you said, it's clearly your right to not condone what happened at the party, because it's your belief, not anyone elses. On the other hand, I'm glad you did reconsider the things you had said, simply because Warren is right: this is high school. You have maybe one other time in your life when you have as much freedom with as little responsibility as you do now/in college, and that's after you're retired, your kids are gone and you have nothing to do. Personally, I feel the experiences and chances life provides us with are sacred and no matter how you feel about them shouldn't be condemned simply because you wouldn't enjoy such things. Nobody was being hurt, all participants in this hectic hedonism participated of their own free will (and apparently had a bomber time of it too ;-) Viva la vie!